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Re-style Story – Confidence Found

There are a few key elements that are important to have during your capsule planning session.  The first is choosing style words, which help you to focus on what overall look that you are going for.  For Amy, she chose:  classic, attractive, and comfortable.

Another element that will make the versatility of your capsule multiply by 100 is choosing a couple of silhouettes that you feel your best in.

Choosing style words and silhouettes may seem a little daunting, but with the guidance of someone who asks the right questions, it becomes an eye-opening process.

Remember!  A capsule wardrobe is for a pre-determined amount of time.  My personal comfy zone is three months time.  Think winter-spring-summer-fall.  This allows me to experiment a little more with fashion.  Some people may prefer to go six months without changing things up.  Some might prefer a year.  When I work with clients, we do a three month capsule because it is do-able and not scary.

So, for three months Amy agreed to follow her style words, her silhouettes, and also a color palette.

Her color palette was easy because she already knew exactly what colors brought her joy to wear.  These were the colors that  she felt comfortable and attractive in.  Remember, Amy had a strong sense of personal style and what she liked and did not like to wear.

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Re-style Story – Misplaced Confidence

Today, I am really looking forward to introducing you to another Amy.

When Amy and I met, she was somewhat familiar with capsule wardrobes.  She believed that less is more and wanted her closet to reflect that choice.  She didn’t like to have “stuff” if it’s not being used.

Amy has a strong sense of personal style, and has for as long as she can remember.  She can tell you about specific outfits that she wore and loved in the 90’s.  She has great memories of trading clothes back and forth with her two sisters to help keep her closet fresh.  She knows her brands, and how to look for clothes that are made with quality in mind.  She follows certain fashion rules such as no white after Labor Day, your shoes should always match your bag, cotton and linen in the summer and cashmere and wool in the winter, floral prints should only be worn in Spring, and having church-only clothes that only are worn to church.

There is nothing wrong with these classic rules, but fashion rules are meant to be broken after you have a deep understanding of them.  So, needless to say, Amy and I had a lot of laughs during our sessions.  She clearly had a deep understanding of them so I was convinced that she needed to break a few just for fun.

Here is Amy, before we began her closet make-over.

The past few years have been rough for Amy, and she hasn’t had the freedom to reflect on her personal style or her clothing because she has been going through the devastation of a divorce.  It has consumed her life and she has used all of her energy to be strong for her children, leaving her with very little to absolutely no time to even think about her outward appearance, not even for a minute.

After Amy reached out to me because she wanted to have less and be happy having less,  I saw that her clothes were beautiful and she was beautiful, but her confidence had been misplaced.  I knew that if Amy worked through the task of purging her clothes and putting together a selection of clothes that brought her joy to wear, that she could re-cover her lost confidence and once again feel beautiful and confident.

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